Professional dating tips
My guest on this latest episode of the Sixty and Me Show is Lisa Copeland, a dynamic writer, blogger and successful over 50 dating coach.
She focuses specifically on working with women over 50, who, she feels, often approach dating with misconceptions and unrealistic goals.
Finally, our conversation covers dating expectations that set older women up for failure and where to go to meet fascinating good men.
The vast majority of people using dating sites are sincere and honest in the information they provide and in their reasons for joining.
Don't include your contact information such as your email address, home address, or phone number in your profile or initial communications.
Take things slowly and share more information when you feel comfortable doing so.
Don't include your surname or any other identifying information such as your place of work either in your profile or when you first make contact.
- Remember that overtly sexual, provocative or controversial usernames could attract the wrong kind of attention. Stay in control when it comes to how and when you share information.
Membership means that the site has to commit to an industry code of practice that includes honest communication with users, protecting their privacy and providing a mechanism for reporting abuse.They cannot do a criminal records check on every user.And a person can become a problem without having a record.Inclusion of the ODA's logo on the site indicates membership.Creating your online dating profile: protect your identity and personal information Be Anonymous - Choose a username that doesn’t let everyone know who you are.We discuss how Lisa provides mature women with the tools and confidence to understand the mindset of a man and how to use their feminine power to create intimacy and achieve successful dating experiences. We discuss how an older women’s attitude to dating (partially shaped by the Women’s Liberation Movement) can be based on a dynamic that sets men and women up as competitors.Lisa explains how older women can tap into their softer seductive feminine powers to bring out the best in men and master the art of dating after 50.It is impossible to get back information once you have given it away.- Stop communicating with anyone who attempts to pressure you into providing your personal or financial information or who seems to be trying to trick you into providing it.Money Requests Are Your Red Light - Why would someone need to borrow money off somebody they have never met, or only just met?There is no reason for anyone to ask you for money or your financial information, whatever sad or sob story they give.