No call rule dating
So, next time you enter the post-date communication dilemma, remember these simple steps: 1.
Check your values, lifestyle preferences and deal breakers – are you potentially a good fit? If no, communicate this to them openly and honestly (not as easy as it sounds, but it gets easier with practice) 3.
As a counsellor, Melanie works with adults to build self-awareness and skills in the areas of anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationships, life balance and a range of other personal and interpersonal issues.
You can support your intuition with some scientific (and fun) data gathering: – Do you share similar values? It is a philosophy based on the primal needs of men and women, assuming all men need to constantly hunt.
Gone are the good old days of waiting by the phone, willing your significant other to call.
Nowadays, we spend our free time strategically calculating the exact length of time from when you open a text, to when you finally decide to reply. To be frank, I’m not a 100 per cent sure, but I hear it’s somewhere along the lines of a year, maybe a month, if you’re Sound a bit ridiculous?
It’s about treating your date the way you would treat a friend – with respect and integrity.
Not counting the days until it’s ok to call or telling your date you’re unavailable when you’re actually free.