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The problem is when someone from a culture where sex is repressed behind shame, honour and purity has to adapt to this.
Have fun with it and perhaps the Swedish way makes you uncomfortable, but then you know it's not for you. As a long term expat I can say that calling something Swedish in a condescending way is the pinnacle of swedishness.The point is that what the "awkwardness" stems from these two approaches clashing.Someone feels like they invested, emotionally, in the other person when perhaps all that was was simple hedonism.In modern days we have just added more layers to it but the reason we agree to "date" is still because we want to sleep with someone."Dating" is just a way to make it a bit more acceptable that we give into desire and sexual attraction.I have dealt with the same, but opposite, problem both in the UK and North America but I wouldn't say that it's awkward.Different cultures and people simply have different ways of doing things.It is certainly good they can freely breakup, as I said, that is a benefit to be away from certain stigmas.But according to stats the chance of success here long term is much lower.We might not see this in society in the same way as a few hundred years ago but it's still there in western culture, see slut shaming and so such.This concept is not exclusive to Christianity but it is the underlying foundation to why "dating" exists.