Dating someone with aspergers
We contrast, but then we fit perfectly together as two pieces of a jigsaw slotting into place.
However, in not telling people, it has caused numerous problems as others have failed to understand me properly, and I them.However, I think my brain works perfectly, just differently.I see things from an entirely different perspective to him, which allows us to challenge one another and learn alternative ideas and thinking.Does this mean that no AS ever had a sexual affair? Loyalty is really an under-acknowledged virtue and good reason to love an Aspie.No, but by and large, having to deal with people, especially intimately, takes a lot of work for an AS. If an AS falls in love with you, they will remain as steadfast and true as any canine companion (no insult intended).Let go of everything you thought you knew about relationships and love and relearn it all from the beginning again. They feel entirely happy with their curious, analytical, creative, alert and intelligent minds.They wouldn’t change you and try to put you on the spectrum, so don’t try to change them.Say “I want you to tell me you love me at least three times every day. Refinements, of course, are necessary but would make up a much larger post.I’ll get to writing another specific post on this topic of lying and truth-telling. The readers are very helpful in teasing out the nuance. Juggling two is just ridiculous, from an AS point of view.A lot of Neuro-Typicals (NT’s) have an ambivalent relationship with the truth.We like the truth if it is good news or flattering. If you don’t want to hear the truth, the blunt truth, don’t ask them.